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Comment ça va ? — and how to answer

“Comment ça va ?” is the everyday way to ask “How are you?” in French. Between friends you’ll often hear the short version, “Ça va ?”. With someone you don’t know, “Comment allez-vous ?” is more formal.

AnswerMeaning
Ça va bien, merci.I’m well, thanks.
Très bien !Very well!
Pas mal.Not bad.
Comme ci, comme ça.So-so.
Bof…Meh…

Then return the question: “Et toi ?” with a friend, or “Et vous ?” with anyone else.

Tu or vous?

French has two ways to say “you”. Tu is informal: use it with friends, family, children and people your own age in relaxed settings. Vous is formal: use it with strangers, older people, in shops and restaurants, and at work. Vous is also the plural — whenever you speak to more than one person.

When in doubt, choose vous: it’s always polite. If the other person prefers tu, they’ll usually say so: “On peut se tutoyer ?” — “Shall we use tu?”

Ordering at a French café

Say “Bonjour !” when you walk in — in France, skipping the greeting feels rude. Then order with “Je voudrais…, s’il vous plaît” (I would like…, please).

You sayYou get
un caféan espresso
un café crèmea coffee with hot milk
un théa tea
une carafe d’eaua jug of tap water, usually free
un croissanta croissant

When you’re ready to leave: “L’addition, s’il vous plaît.” — “The bill, please.”

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